Patterns continue to replay; same stuff, different day. You know better is available, but getting from here to there is a struggle. I totally get it! Trust me; I do. Not getting to the second “I do” is what raised all the red flags for me! Imagine being engaged three times and never making it to the altar. Out of three marriage-bound relationships, there was one common denominator: me. I had to deal with me. More importantly than dealing with me, I needed to heal me.
Looking back, there was never a time that I did not dream of being married. As a little girl I did more than visualize myself as a bride; I saw myself as a loving, supportive, all-around GREAT wife! My longing was deeper than one show-stopping, head-turning day.